Showing posts with label Love and Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love and Relationships. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Love and Relationships - Draft - Rant - Love is based on respect

[7:25:32 PM] Yael: anyway i love u the way you are. at least for now. later we will see.
[7:25:46 PM] Yael: i am looking for a sustainable love, which is mainly based on mutual respect
[7:26:02 PM] Yael: the day i stop respecting my lover, love starts fading away
[7:26:30 PM] Yael: mutual respect is based on growth
[7:26:35 PM] Yael: people have to grow together
[7:26:36 PM] Yuval Tsemach: אם ככה היא כנראה תעלם
[7:26:39 PM] Yael: that's all
[7:26:41 PM] Yael: no
[7:26:53 PM] Yael: why do you think so?
[7:27:01 PM] Yuval Tsemach: הערכה זה משהו שלא תלוי בזמן
[7:27:10 PM] Yael: yes it does
[7:27:17 PM] Yael: some people move forward and some stay the same
[7:27:20 PM] Yael: it's stagnation
[7:27:27 PM] Yael: maybe you will lose respect for me
[7:28:07 PM] Yael: as long as people grow and learn from their mistakes, and learn from each other, they will continue respecting each other
[7:28:17 PM] Yael: it's not a problem if someone makes mistake
[7:28:20 PM] Yael: a mistake
[7:28:23 PM] Yael: even a bad one
[7:28:32 PM] Yael: like loses all of their money in a bad deal or something
[7:28:55 PM] Yael: their partner can still retain respect for them if they have learned and got back on their feet
[7:28:59 PM] Yael: just an example

Love & Relationships - Draft - Rant - Invisible bond

I felt that something happened last night. Something metaphysical, between me and you. Like a connection, an invisible bond, I felt that maybe it got tighter or stronger. Perhaps. Maybe it was the trust. But I felt something. I don't know what you felt. It could be possible that you felt the opposite. It happens sometimes that people feel the opposite things in moments quite dramatic. But this realization since yesterday has carried me through today and has caused me to blank out and stare at the opposite wall in contemplation. Contemplation of nothing in particular. An unfocused vision of the white wall intersected by strange matrix-like grid in front of my eyes. A meditation-like tingling in the limbs. And no particular thoughts. Very strange.

as for the feelings. i dont know. it's like in a game of snooker. to shoot the ball you have to draw an invisible line continuing your stick toward the ball and into the hole
so i could draw that line through your eyes with my eyes. that's how i felt

and, to be serious for a minute, i have NEVER felt this way before. REAL. like being in between the sky and the earth. feeling the ground under my feet yet being taken so high. REAL HIGH. REAL & HIGH. this is new. and true. true love. life worth living. with you. being. seeing. feeling. and believing. in good. in everlasting spring. blossoming. growing. spreading roots. belonging. feeling home. warmth. embrace. it all started with embrace. that's probably why i fell for you. nothing's better than being in your arms. i love you.